Do for your Self as you would do for another...

I had two clients today both make similar statements regarding finding a man to look after them - like that would make it all better. By IT, of course I mean, their LIFE. It got me questionning my own life and seeing where I too, in the past, have been in that same situation - doubting my own abilities..

Why do so many people seek for another to "look after them"?

What is it within people that makes them believe that they are not capable of looking after themselves?

Where were we led to believe that we would never be whole unless we had someone to look after us and, on the flip side, someone for us to look after?

Why not simply focus all that love and attention on YOU and see where it might lead?

In my life, I have delved into this belief pattern too. However, when I did have financial support and all that that entails on the material plane, I did not feel safe. I worried constantly about what might or could or would happen, all the while clinging to what? Someone else to take charge of me and my life FOR me? And what would I do?

What I have learned is that once we consciously take charge of our own life without any expectations placed upon another, we start to stand taller. We start to feel that excitement of creating once again? We start to believe in our own sweet self.

So, I guess what I am saying here is that it is time to start believing in YOU for you is what you have to work with RIGHT NOW. Embrace the possibilities in doing FOR YOU, as you are guided in each moment. No longer waiting for some magical prince or princess to ride you off into the sunset. No longer living in a place of fear.

From this moment onward, start to live in a place of LOVE. If even for a moment at a time. With time, those moments stretch into minutes. Those minutes stretch into hours. Those hours stretch into days and before long, you are living in a state of bliss, creating your life moment to moment in a state of Love, joy and surrender to simply living in the moment.

That is what I have learned for today. I share from a place of deep reverence for all of our journeys.....

Namaste