clear and present communication

I love words and I love talking - discussing a myriad range of topics with the people who come into my life. Yesterday I was attempting to talk with someone on the phone and I found myself getting so very VERY frustrated at the gaps in the conversation that I finally said "Hey, you don't seem to be very present and I am not sure what it is that you are wanting here", so I said goodbye. And that sense of disconnect was the very problem that was occurring.

When we are in conversation with another it is so important to be fully present. Sure we all have things going on in our lives that are clamoring for attention but when we have chosen to be in communication with another it is only polite to be engaged and present for the other person.

Of course, being an Energy Worker, I am perhaps way more aware of when the energy has drifted and when that happens, FOR ME, I disengage. It is just too hard for me trying to stay connected with the other is NOT. Is it only me or do others sense this disconnect within some of their interactions too?

When we are young it is perhaps more apparent but when we are adults you would think that we would be aware of this but it does not appear to be so with some of the people in my life. My patience is tested and then I disengage. I got off the phone and then wrote an email trying to explain how I felt during the disjointed conversation with this Soul. And this is something that is always present with this person. Trying to explain it didn't go over very well as he thought he was being clear. Finished our conversation early this morning and while I feel better about my explanation, I really do not think he got it.

I like things to flow effortlessly when with others and while this may be the way that I operate out in the world, there are many who do not fully engage, even with themselves, and that appears to be where the problem lies.

In every connection that we have out in the world there is a need to be fully present and IN the flow of what is occurring. To me it just makes sense but then again, I have been working with this my entire life. Being present, in the flow and fully engaged.

So many people just float through their lives and never really link in to the essence of their Soul. When this happens, there is a break in the energy flow and it feels like we are simply drifting along without any clear connection to anything.........least of all to our selves.

So for today, pay attention to the connections that you forge throughout your day. Be present, open to receive and be open to share from the depths of your Soul. We are all Souls trying to engage in this 3d reality and while you can pretend to be here, others will sense if your mind and attention is elsewhere. We owe it to others and we owe it to ourselves to be here now, in every moment.

Have a beautiful day and stay present.

Namaste